Mandalore wrote:
"If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her."
Mandy, translation of the scriptures is a very difficult task and no Bible can fully capture the real meaning of the original text. There are, however, some versions which are better than others. For that reason, I stick to versions like the Reina Valera in Spanish or the King James Version. Very few translations use the word "rape" and I find that very odd. Most of the respected ones use the term "take" which is more appropriate to the context.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29
King James Version (KJV)
28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29
Common English Bible (CEB)
28 If a man meets up with a young woman who is a virgin and not engaged, grabs her and has sex with her, and they are caught in the act, 29 the man who had sex with her must give fifty silver shekels to the young woman’s father. She will also become his wife because he has humiliated her. He is never allowed to divorce her.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
28 “If a man finds a girl who is a virgin, who is not engaged, and seizes her and lies with her and they are discovered, 29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall become his wife because he has violated her; he cannot divorce her all his days.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29
American Standard Version (ASV)
28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, that is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
29 then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he hath humbled her; he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomio 22:28-29
Reina-Valera Antigua (RVA)
28 Cuando alguno hallare moza virgen, que no fuere desposada, y la tomare, y se echare con ella, y fueren hallados;
29 Entonces el hombre que se echó con ella dará al padre de la moza cincuenta piezas de plata, y ella será su mujer, por cuanto la humilló: no la podrá despedir en todos sus días.
To clarify things, back in ancient israel, when women were given in marriage, the men had to pay the parents a sum of money. It was important because just like today, it takes a lot of money to raise children. So, the payment from the new husband was a financial contribution for raising her. If a woman was to be found having sex with someone out of marriage, nobody would want to marry her. So, if they were both discovered, then the man had to pay the parents and marry the girl, because he made her loose her virginity. And that is not surprising, because even recently in the 50's and 60's young ladies that had pre-marital sex had were deemed unworthy and were very difficult to marry because nobody wanted to marry a girl that had lost her virginity. Therefore, the text is not about rape. The man is "taking" the woman to have sex, but the text also says "and they are discovered" which implies that the woman also consented to sex and was discovered. Besides, just like you said, if the real text was "rape" it wouldn't even make sense. What parents would want her daughter to marry a rapist?
So... to summarize:
1. the text is not capturing the real meaning of the original hebrew text.
2. the law was made to protect parents from having an unmarried daughter, which was very embarrassing in those times.
3. this law also protected the financial state of the parents.
4. this law protected young women who made the mistake of loosing the virginity before marriage. It forced the guy who had sex with her to marry her. While nowadays, many men have sex with young women, leave them pregnant and never come back.
5. This law served the purpose of stopping young men of having pre marital sex. They had to think twice if they were going to do what they were going to do, because he would have to stick to that woman forever, without the possibility of divorce or of choosing another woman that he preferred.
I hope that answers your question. By the way, if we don't want to throw the thread out of its original purpose, I could respond your other questions through a PM.