Legal/Ethical Issue

[FaiL.?]

I appreciate that thought and I'll keep it in mind. Problem is most of my issues are not exactly solvable. My mom's and my health, our financial situation, etc. I'm showing signs of clinical depression, that's always fun. Doctor's failing us left, right, and center, or just leaving the state altogether.
The fact I'm probably killing my laptops by playing games is a great thought to stress me out every time I fire up World of Tanks and watch my GPU overheat to 95c and up. Is 80c too much to ask for? Apparently. I'll open it up and see if there's any dust issues, maybe even get some new thermal paste. But I digress.

The fact the thought was put out there does a lot in and of itself. Keep on rockin, SWGO.

Yep, we're there for ya, Wulf. You're a pretty decent (in a good way ) guy. Good luck.

[WD-40]

I just got back from a flight to England and back. It seems some good advice is flowing, and I would concur, don't deliver in person, and have it (as Matt suggested) signed for. Not sure what Duel suggested is about, but sounds interesting, and obviously Dad has an idea or two, which is still a mystery...maybe should stay that way on the forums .

Sometimes, you could even have a Deputy Sheriff serve this type of thing. I wish you well, and hope your ex and your kids can get away soon from this a-hole.

[Flyswamper]

Personally I wouldn't be asking on the internet for advice. You already mentioned you have a lawyer that helped you. Tell him what happened and get his advice. He will know the specifics of the case as well as local laws and processes. Anything else is asking for trouble.