Maybe I can help clear this up... The vast majority of people who play the hero mode are overgrown (or undergrown) babies who cry and complain about everything.
IM(ns)HO opinion theres no such thing as a 'ks'; you either succeed at killing or you fail. If an enemy player is alive then they are a target for anyone on your team.
TP sure is a pain in the ass and so is TK- these seperate the men from the boys in any FF on game.
Anywayz, try playing conquest. People will call you noob for being good at any weapon or class, but there isnt much more for people to complain about.