Fett
Relax, have fun, lay-off the KS/TP and the chat spam. That would be the best thing for you to do as this point.
You are making a rod for your own back here. If everyone else has noticed that you are chat spamming, tp/ksing then perhaps they have a point.
You perceive that everyone else is ksing/tping but it is only you that is making so much about very little. If there was a problem you would see the admins taking the necessary steps; friendly warning, formal warning, kick and if extreme a ban.
The server is there and people come to have fun, you are now starting to disrupt the fun through your actions.
Admit you have a problem then take the necessary steps to combat it which are:
1) Lay-off the chat spam
2) Lay-off the tp/ks
So the next time you are in-game think of points 1 and 2 above. Follow the 2 step guide and perhaps you can move forward, if not then take a week-off from playing to calm down.
Regards,
Kren