Pull, push, choke or whatever happens it's force server. Star War has force in the film and so in the game. If people don't like it that's tough luck.
Typical comments; 'you pull 2 much, push 2 much, choke alot, you use 2 much force' or they will come out with 'I don't use force' and expect you to do the same as them; be yourself. If you agree to go 'no force' don't expect the rest of the players on the server to do the same, even the one's who say they will not use force are prone to using it.
You get people saying moves are sad, noobish but hey everyone has an opinion and provided you don't spam the chat then it's up to you what you say, obviously be careful how you say it as people came easily become offended. Accuse people of cheating by slow running etc is either going to make them question why you came out with the statement or you might get a flood of abuse or told to shut up. It's easy to get on the bad side of people. If people are cheating admins will see this.
Lag is a real pain in the rear, I do know that first hand leaving across the pond from the server. You find that people who lag generally are at a disadvantage and others love this because your reaction/moves won't be as quick as them but if you learn to play with lag then boy just wait until your ping drops significantly as those players who were beating you will suddenly see a different 'you', oh and then they might start accusing you of cheating or not want to play against you. How the tables quickly turn.
Explore all the characters, learn to use force or no force and all the strategy and techniques you can come up with. Just be yourself.
I kinda find this with HA;
1) If you are new to the game and not very good people will target you as you are an easy kill.
2) You get better, people will try to beat you 1-on-1 as it is harder now for them to kill you.
3) When you get skillful people will target and team-up on you so they can say they have killed you.
Each stage you will find people get frustrated with you and sometimes you with other players. Provided you are not doing anything the breaks the rules then sit back and enjoy game.
Take the game as a game and have fun.
Regards,
Kren