Everyone should just go there to have fun, sometimes your on the pulling team side, sometimes your on the choking team side. I like to play as a Han Solo, yes it gets frustrating when I have to get force pushed 4 times before a Darth Maul gets me but that is the game. Making someone use the force on me is a successful fight in my eyes. But then what, they get me... most I have to wait is 15 sec for a new guy.
I've never really put much stock in the score on game tracker anyway, what for... an 8 year old game. Some kids playing this game were in diapers when it came out. Back then there were players who would pound pull noobs into the cantina wall, all while typing "pwnt" onto the screen
Honestly, anyone spending more then 30 seconds admiring the scores they got after a round of HA really need to get out an get some sun...